Relationship Advice - Concise Advice about Growing Up

CODEPENDENCY IN RELATIONSHIPS  95
CODEPENDENCY is an ADDICTION. You get TRAPPED in UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. Learn how to recognize CODEPENDENCY. Understand its CAUSES and EFFECTS, and how you can GROW out of it and make a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

SELF-PARENTING WILL GREATLY IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS  94

In RELATIONSHIPS, you often look for the PARENTING you didn’t get. If you expect your partner to be your MOTHER or FATHER, your RELATIONSHIP is bound to run into trouble. Find out how to PARENT yourself and deal with CONFLICTING NEEDS in your relationships. Learn how to assess your own NEEDS and meet them yourself.

ABOUT AUTHORITY AND INTEGRITY, POWER AND CONTROL  93

Discover the RELATIONSHIP between INTEGRITY and AUTHORITY. Find out how you give your POWER away. Learn to use your own AUTHORITY. TAKE CONTROL of your life. Understand how to use KNOWLEDGE and EXPERIENCE to build TRUST and SECURITY.

DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES – 2  92
DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES teach IMMATURE PATTERNS of RELATING. You seek COMFORT in DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIPS. You’re used to PAIN and FEAR. They’re FAMILIAR. Learn how to build SECURITY and STABILITY without them and make HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.

DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES - 1  91

DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES teach DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS, distorted ASSUMPTIONS and INEFFECTIVE STRATEGIES for COPING with CONFLICT. Learn what is meant by a DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY and how an ADEQUATE FAMILY works. CHALLENGE what you learned in your FAMILY. CHANGE your DYSFUNCTIONAL BEHAVIOUR and get more out of life.

WHAT IS SEXUALITY  90
What is SEXUALITY? Find out how it works, how to CONTAIN it and what you can do with it. Understand the meaning of SEXUAL FANTASY and SACRED SEXUALITY; and the difference between HEALTHY SEX and SEX ADDICTION. Learn how to find MEANING and FULFILLMENT through the MARRIAGE of your HEART and GENITALS.

IDENTIFYING PATTERNS IN RELATIONSHIPS – PART 4  89
Do you find you repeat PATTERNS in your RELATIONSHIPS? Find out how these patterns arise, how to UNDERSTAND their MEANING and work with them to IDENTIFY the sources of CONFLICT in your RELATIONSHIP with yourself and others; learn how to RELATE with the person, not the pattern. Pattern 4 is the conflict of GENDER IDENTITY.

IDENTIFYING PATTERNS IN RELATIONSHIPS – PART 3  88

Do you find you repeat PATTERNS in your RELATIONSHIPS? Find out how these patterns arise, how to UNDERSTAND their MEANING and work with them to IDENTIFY the sources of CONFLICT in your RELATIONSHIP with yourself and others; how to RELATE with the person, not the pattern. Pattern 3 is the conflict of power and control.

IDENTIFYING PATTERNS IN RELATIONSHIPS – PART 2  87
Do you find you repeat PATTERNS in your RELATIONSHIPS? Find out where patterns arise, how to UNDERSTAND their MEANING and work with them to IDENTIFY the sources of CONFLICT in your RELATIONSHIP with yourself and with others; how to RELATE with the person, not the pattern. Pattern 2 is the conflict of need fulfilment.

IDENTIFYING PATTERNS IN RELATIONSHIPS – PART 1  86
Do you find you repeat PATTERNS in your RELATIONSHIPS? Find out how these patterns arise, how to UNDERSTAND their MEANING and work with them to IDENTIFY the sources of CONFLICT in your RELATIONSHIP with yourself and others. Learn how to RELATE with the person, not the pattern. Pattern 1 is the  conflict of personal identity.

MAKING BOUNDARIES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS  85
Saying NO is a LOVING DECISION. Making BOUNDARIES promotes TRUST and INTIMACY and builds HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. Learn the difference between PROTECTING YOURSELF and DEFENDING YOURSELF, between DICIPLINE and PUNISHMENT, and how to be gently ASSERTIVE and SAFE.

DEALING WITH RAGE AND ANGER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS  84
Find out how to handle your EMOTIONS and turn DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS of RELATING into CONSTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIPS. Learn about RAGE and ANGER and the difference between them.

LOVE AND LONGING  83

How to understand the difference between LOVE and LONGING. You don’t FALL in LOVE but in LONGING. Learn about BEING IN LOVE and the dynamics of LOVE and LONGING in your ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS. Find out whether your RELATIONSHIP is based on LOVE or LONGING, FEAR and PAIN.

LOVE AND FEAR IN RELATIONSHIPS  82

Facing FEAR and PAIN can bring you closer together. Find out about the RELATIONSHIP between LOVE and FEAR and how FEAR can dominate and destroy your RELATIONSHIPS and prevent you from LOVING.

RELATIONSHIPS  81

Can’t live with them; can’t live without them. Find out why your RELATIONSHIPS aren’t working, why you can’t leave that difficult RELATIONSHIP and what makes you get into RELATIONSHIPS in the first place.

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